We've got a second child on the way and despite lots of plans to get everything ready gradually, the last month has been a mass of changes for my DS who is 21 months.
- We've had to change the car, getting rid of his beloved 'magic roof' car
- The new car then packed in and we've got another one that he hates
- He's changed bedrooms
- He's moved from a cot to a bed
- Daddy has stopped cycling to work and takes the car instead in case I go into labour
- A crib has appeared in Mummy and Daddy's room
- Mummy is on crutches
His reaction to all of this is to start insisting that he is a baby not a big boy.
He's refusing to use the potty or toilet despite being dry during the day for ages
He won't use a knife and fork
He demands a bottle for all of his drinks.
Is very clingy despite being very independant up until now..
I'm ignoring the behaviour and treating it as a phase. I don't want to react and prolong it. Baby is arriving soon so that will be more change and upheavel for him. how long can I expect it to continue? I'm worried that he's a bit overwhelmed by it all.
Any advice or examples from your experience would be great!