hello all
i am pretty sure i want to have ds (aged 7) assessed by a child and/or educational psychologist.
my reasons are as follows:
- ds can be difficult to deal with and the bog-standard behaviour management techniques don't appear to suit him well. i feel there is a lot of conflict and worry that it does not bode well for the future.
- ds seems rather immature in certain aspects of his behaviour, e.g. still has tantrums, in floods of tears over the slightest thing.
- i have never felt that ds is doing particularly well at his (highly regarded, outstanding ofsted-ed, state) school. it may well be that i am just an overly competitive, pushy mum - but i'd rather have an expert assess ds's progress and tell me that rather than continuing to live with this niggle about his progress.
in addition to a proposed assessment, i will be getting out the trusty parenting manuals for some revision!
anyway, i've suggested this to dh and told him my reasons. he is not keen for ds to have this assessment.
should i go ahead anyway?
over to you wise mumsnetters TIA