My sister (14) has been bullied non stop since she started primary school at the age of 5. She is a prime target for bullies...ginger hair, over-weight, no fashion interest, suspected aspergers, very babyish interests (like Ben 10 and Mario etc)...
Anyway the school she is at now is the worst in Hull, it's been all over the news the past few days...teachers walking out, kids behaving like animals, 10% GCSE pass mark...absolutely terrible school and has just been placed in special measures. Obviously her life here is awful.
So my mum has decided to transfer her to an all girls school with a better reputation in a better area. I happen to know a few girls her age that go to this school from my karate class and they are all lovely. One in particular is a lovely girl, confident, happy, friendly, a black belt in karate...I was considering asking her if she'd "befriend" my sister when she starts her school. They will be in the same year and would never make friends naturally. Just until my sister makes a friend of her own (however unlikely that may be) or until she settles in.
But I'm wondering if its a lot to ask of a 14 year old girl I barely know? I'm trying to think what I'd react like if I where her parents and in once I'd kind of be proud that someone thought so much of my daughter to ask that but on the other hand...would you want your confident, happy and popular girl being dragged into the whole "aspergers girl babysitting job" scenario? (not trying to be mean, just trying to see it from another parents point of view.
What do you think? My sister would never make friends on her own, she can't interact properly with anyone (well she does but she either puts them off going on about babyish cartoons or shuts off completely which makes people think she's being ignorent when she's just scared/nervous. )
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Is this too much to ask of a 14 year old girl?
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Bloater · 09/09/2008 17:44
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