No 1 17 months, no 2 on the way...life sometimes (no, sorry, always) seems to consist of work/cooking/chores/tiredness/lovely parenting moments (honestly) but not much in the way of an escape route to spend some time on me (or us for that matter). My top plans so far:
- stick rigidly to pre-arranged me-time (going out swimming/meeting friends) even if i bloody well don't feel like it at the time or they cancel on me, cos otherwise i get seethingly resentful of dh, v unfairly.
- cunningly have a holiday planned in the next few weeks, thank god.
Honestly, how does everyone cope? How do you organise your time? Am I going to feel like this for the next five years or so? Is it worse with two? (or better )Oh, and don't get me started on being broke. AAAgh