feeling a bit paranoid ... I've always been good at being on my own, sitting reading a book or the paper, don't need the radio on, don't need to ring people up for long chats etc. silence is fine for me. (am lone parent too).
ds is 16mo and he has a few "words" - ie sounds that do mean something specific, but nothing that he actually comes out with himself, eg he doesn't point at a dog and say "dog", though he knows what a dog is.
I have friends who talk non-stop to their kids. Everything they pick up is described and talked about, books aren't just read but the pictures gone over and everything pointed out. I think this may be at one extreme but suspect I'm at the other.
If I'm giving ds his lunch I will suddenly realise that we're sitting face to face and I haven't spoken to him. Then start telling him what he's eating and that its nice etc. Then run out of inspiration and go quiet again or sort of forget halfway through that I should be talking to him and go back to my own thoughts.
Do I need to do more on the talking front? If so what? I just don't seem able to come out with the stream-of-consciousness that others do.
Sorry this is so long. thank you.
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people with quite little los - how much do you talk to them?
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greenandpleasant · 31/08/2008 19:49
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