DD1, 4 years and 8mths old has the most horrendous tantrums. I am finding it harder and harder to cope with them.
I have tried time everything I can think of to stop it happening/escalating but once she starts there is no reasoning with her.
It has got so bad that she is actually hurting me, throwing things and screaming so loudly that my neighbours must think I am hurting her. After a week with major meltdowns happening every day I just feel like a terrible mum and don't know where to turn.
Todays tantrum was because I refused to let her get ice cream before dinner! I said no and all hell broke loose
After her screaming and kicking things I told her that her behaviour was not acceptable and she would be put in her room to calm down. This resulted in her kicking, punching me and slapping me in the face all the way there. Once in her room she started throwing things and actually chipped the paint off her wall!
Is this normal behaviour? I have seem many a child have a tantrum (friends kids etc) but never to this extent.
Where am I going wrong?
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Tantrums...urgent help needed please?
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Lomond · 21/08/2008 18:52
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