I'm going to apologise in advance. I'm 38weeks+4 days with twins and ratty as hell but here goes........
DH and I have two DS's 7 and 4 years old. I get up with them during the week for breakfast, wash, teeth etc and he usually drops them off at school on his way to work. We live virtually opposite the school so I don't usually wake him till 8am ( with coffee I might add!)
At the weekends I usually get up with them again, sometimes I can stay in bed and doze but after a while they start play fighting which then escalates and needs sorting out. Once we're up they'll have breakfast, play, watch TV but there comes a point when they have to go out. We don't have a garden so this involves a trip to the playground or park.
On the rare occasions that I can persuade DH to get up with them on the weekends I wake up to the sound of fighting. The boys will still be in pyjamas, going stir crazy with DH on the computer shouting at them to "go and find something to do." I firmly believe that children should be able to entertain themselves for a while but there are limits. If I can make the effort to take them out is it too much to ask him to do the same? Does anyone else have any experiences like this with their DH/DP or did I just pull the short straw 'park visiting' wise. I must add that in all other ways DH is fantastic with them, it's just weekend mornings which seem to cause friction.
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bubble99 · 13/02/2005 21:28
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