I'm hardly ever on here and this is my second (unrelated!) post in 20 mins....!
Anyway, I'm having a really hard time of it at the moment (like many of us on here I have 3 small kids and very little / no extended family support. Husband is great now but have an 'emotional affair' last yr - long story...). I love my kids but feel utterly drained by them. Recently things have got really bad. I don't smack them or anything but I am a really grumpy and shouty mum and have zero (and I mean) zero time, tolerance or patience with / for them. I feel desperately bored as a SAHM (am currently job-seeking) and have some days when I can't even motivate myself to go out. My sex drive (mediocre at the best of times) has become non-existant and I'm suffering really bad PMS these days. I'm impatient and just very unhappy - and I can't help but feel that a lot of this is to do with hormones. I also feel really really stressed a lot of the time (I mean I can actually physically shake with stress)- unable to sleep etc - and I worry about everything. We also are experiencing probs w/ neighbours. My poor kids, I feel they deserve so much better. So I need to take action and I need advice: I know everyone's different and different medicines affect different people but I am soooooo scared of the thought of being reliant upon ADs - what is your experience? Do you have to be on them forever? Do they only work for the time you are taking them? And which brand / type seems to work best??? I sound like a right head-case I know. Stupid thing is, you'd never guess it if you met me on the street (I have that Happy Housewife persona down to a T !) Thanks in advance.
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BBJ · 09/08/2008 20:15
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