I am also quite angry ATM and know if I gor ound to speak to the mother, I will end up shouting and probably cause her to go into premature labour!
During the May half term, DS1 was brought home by the police, having been writing on someone else's garage with 2 other children (brothers, one Ds1s age, the other DS2's age). He was grounded for a week, however 10 mintues after the police brought him home, the 2 brothers were round at the door asking if he wanted to go to McDonalds with them as a treat.
A couple of days after that, DS2 came home and told me all about condoms and sex and what it involved, as the boys mother ahd taken it upon herself to tell him, and another child when they were round at her house.
A couple of weeks ago the same child (i'll call him fred) tried to strangle my next doors neighbours child, he left bruises on her neck. The police were involved and Freds mum told my DS1 at school "Fred isn't going to play with you any more you are a bad influence". She alkso had a scremaing session on ym neighbours doorstep at 2am, telling her she was a bitch for getting the police involved and that ehr child had asked for it!
Fred and his brother have been shoplifting as well, according to the woman who works in the shop, .
lastly, DS1 came home 30 minutes ago in floods of tears. I ahd gone to the shop and bought both Dses a pack of Starburst choosers. As I approached them, I heard the other children say "oh give me one". Apparently DS1 had given his 2 friends one and Ds2 had given his friend one. Fred was one of the friends DS1 gave a sweet too. Fred wanted another one though and DS1 had said no, so Fred punched him in the stomach, and on the arm. DS1 has a bruise on his arm, about 10 cm long and is lying on the sofa, still crying becasue his tummy hurts. he had thrown the rest of the sweets at fred and stomred off crying, followed by cries of "baby cry face".
For once, DS2 defended him and came home to see if he was ok.
Its difficult round here, there is very little for the Dses to do apart from play football, and the other children seem to accept that fred and his brother are what they are.
I really want to say aomething to this mother but I know I will start shouting. Several other aprents have told me that the mother doesn't belive in punishing her children for misdemeanours
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I am having difficulty understanding another child's behaviour in relation to DS1. I am also needing to rant and get this off my chest
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saltire · 02/08/2008 18:58
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