My DS is finding life outside the home a bit too much like hard work. Picture a very soft and cuddly boy, who likes kisses and sitting on knees and gossiping and giggling lots for inexplicable reasons.
He likes football so we took him to a football club. He was the only boy who skipped on the pitch. Usually a long way away from the ball. He's the same on the tennis court. At swimming lessons he engages the teachers and others in conversation and forgets to do the butterfly or whatever he is supposed to be doing.
He told me he finds school "a bit too rough". To put the school in context it is a pretty posh school. The poshest school within a 20 mile radius in any event. Simply crammed full of nancy boys in caps. The teachers are a bit too brusque for him, the PE teacher sounds a bit sadistic tbh and he doesn't like rugby, though he does quite like the choir.
He is quite charming and I've never known him be malicious or tell a lie. He does what he is told immediately and his room is tidy and his teeth are always brushed. But he is very easily and quite seriously hurt when people say careless or mildly hurtful things.
What can we do to help him toughen up?
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DS (8) is finding the world a bit too rough and tough - what can we do?
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Quattrocento · 02/08/2008 14:13
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