I know I most definatly would, without a second thought.
The reason I ask, is because xp's eldest dd (21), is expecting her first baby with her partner who is basically a twat. He doesn't work, has no intention of doing so, and doesn't treat xp's dd very well at all.
She does work part time, but is struggling to pay all bills etc because her dp contirbutes nothing at all. They argue all of the time and he is constantly leaving her and coming back etc.
Her mum (xp's first wife), lives alone, in a three bed house, but has told her dd that she is not welcome to move back in as she has raised her kids and it's her time now.
I am utterly gobsmacked that she can treat her own dd in this way when she knows just how much she is struggling. She is nearly 7mths pregnant fgs, not eating properly, sending texts to her dad saying she wished she wasn't here, and basically just not coping at all.
IMO xp and his ex wife are going about the whole thing in the wrong way, constantly lecturing their dd about whats going on, saying she got herself into this mess etc etc, and that they can't keep bailing her out.
Apparently they are both going round to see her tommorow night, and I told xp that imo they are going to push her further away if they carry on having a go at her, but his opinion is that her life is ruined anyway now.
I know it really is nothing to do with me, but I am just amazed at her mums atitude.
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Would you let your pregnant 21 yr old move back home if things in her life were not goingly smoothly ??
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