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Hitting your child with a belt .... the law

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Poppychick · 12/07/2008 18:24

Is it illegal to hit a 6 year old with a belt? Also is classed as neglect / child abuse to another child if they witness it without it actually having happened to them?

Anyone in the know - social services etc. please reply.

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davidtennantsmistress · 12/07/2008 18:26

personally I would say yes - althou i'm not an expert, and bias as not a fan of smacking per se so can't imagine why anyone would hit their child with a belt

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southeastastra · 12/07/2008 18:26

yes it's physical abuse

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cornsilk · 12/07/2008 18:27

I would say it was physical abuse for the child hit. Perhaps emotional abuse for a child to have to watch it.

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Poppychick · 12/07/2008 18:28

Are any of you certain of this officially by any chance?

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cornsilk · 12/07/2008 18:29

No.

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southeastastra · 12/07/2008 18:31

do child protection courses for work every year though don't work for ss

more information here

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ProfessorGrammaticus · 12/07/2008 18:36

I'm pretty sure using anything other than ahand is illegal

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AuntieMaggie · 12/07/2008 18:38

Why would you want to do that? And in front of another child?

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OverMyDeadBody · 12/07/2008 18:41

Why do you want to know Poppy?

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LadyMuck · 12/07/2008 18:42

It depends on the physical and/or mental damage to the child. The way that the law works is that any assault on a child is potentially a criminal offence. However there is a defence for parents of "reasonable chastisement". This defence can only be used in cases of common assault (not abh or gbh). And with the introduction of s58 of the Children's Act 2004 this defence can only be used where a smack or equivalent left no mark other than temporary redness.

Assuming that the belt did leave a mark, then strictly an offence has occured. However usually social services would take steps to address the behaviour rather than immediately pressing for prosecution as it would also be traumatic for a family to have a parent imprisoned.

In terms of the implications for a child watching, then it would depend on the circumstances. If the child had a fear that siilar treatment was likely to be meted out to themselves, then it could be treated as child abuse. But again usually SS would intervene to educate the parent rather than to punish.

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LadyMuck · 12/07/2008 18:43

Oh, and i'm assuming that you're in England - law is different in Scotland I think.

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Miggsie · 12/07/2008 18:43

Well, if you removed your belt and hit an adult with it, it would be classed as assault, so I don't see why it can be ok to hit a small child in the same way.

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Heathcliffscathy · 12/07/2008 18:44

piss poor that it isn't totally illegal really isn't it?

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mieowcat · 12/07/2008 19:12

illegal? borderline cruel maybe?

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memoo · 12/07/2008 19:15

i believe that it is illegal, I think that you can be prosecuted for using anything other than your hand to smack a child. though imo thats just as bad

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colditz · 12/07/2008 19:19

It is illegal to hit anyone with a belt.

The only physicality you are allowed to use on a child is an open handed slap that does not leave a mark or connect to the head. I am not getting into the morality of smacking on this thread though.

It is abuse of the child who received it, and the child who witnessed it HOWEVER I don't know how long that has been that law.

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colditz · 12/07/2008 19:21

Having received both an openhanded smack and the full force of a belt, I can confidently state that a slap is NOWHERE FUCKING NEAR as bad.

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Heathcliffscathy · 12/07/2008 21:57

colditz

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colditz · 12/07/2008 21:59

oh no no no lovely sophable, it was accidental - well, my brother and I were whirling belts around and he caught me on the back. It hurts like a bitch let me tell you, and that was with a 7 year old's arm, I cannot imagine the pain if a grown man was doing it.

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nannyL · 13/07/2008 11:01

Im sure (in 2008) it is illegal to hit anyone with a belt

Its is child abuse and social srvices need to know

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Poppychick · 13/07/2008 11:11

A child at work told me it happened to their step brother and they saw it.

Have filled in an appropriate form but worried my boss (designated CP person) isn't taking it seriously.

Thanks

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Poppychick · 13/07/2008 11:15

I could find out their address and ring up SS anonymously (sp) couldn't I? As anyone could. This parent isn't at the child's home though it's like a weekend Dad situation so I wouldn't know his address.

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VictorianSqualor · 13/07/2008 11:28

Do you know which school they go to?
A childs name and the school would be enough.

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