My DD (19 months) is driving me and DH crazy at the moment. If she can't have what she wants she just screams. Today she had her first full-on tantrum - we went out for a walk with the dog. At first she wanted to walk holding the dog's lead but when the dog started to pull too hard I took the lead off her. SHe screamed and then refused to walk any further. We walked off anticipating that she would follow us but she didn't, so I had to give in and go back to get her.
THen when I put her down again she screamed cos she wanted to hold the dog again - so DH walked off and she sat down and screamed again. I walked off too and this time she followed, screaming blue murder. To cut a long story short this went on repeatedly for nearly 45 mins - and towards the end she actually lay down and banged her fists and feet on the ground. I know that there was nothing wrong with her because the one occasion when I did pick her up she stopped crying immediately.
We are trying to be really strict in that we don't give in to her just because she is screaming....mostly we ignore her or turn our backs on her. WHen she is with her nanny when we are at work she doesn't scream at all!
Any advice? I can't stand it any more. Please can someone tell me that it doesn't last forever! I don't want her to learn that she can always have what she wants when she screams.
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sarahu · 03/01/2005 15:11
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