I'm a stay at home mum with a Work From Home dad. Every time my baby cries he comes to help. He says he isn't judging, he just wants to help stop her crying. I know he's her parent too but he'd argue with me for not asking for help until I hand her over. I nearly put her to sleep. I started breastfeeding her to sleep because if she was breastfeeding she wasn't crying so he wouldn't take her off of me.
It got to a stage when the health care worker said she should be in the cot and offering sleep advice.
My partner would say he isn't ready for that and that we'd do it when we are. That he liked the slow process they told us about even though it drew out the struggle. She sleeps fine on her own and I got her to sleep once but he still makes plans to put her to bed himself.
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I feel my partner is stealing away my parenting opportunity one handover at a time
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ReuT3 · 14/06/2021 10:53
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