Hi guys.
So I'm in a bit of a mess. Everyone I talk to about it tells me that it's cruel, harmful and that the person in question should be reported as it is a type of abuse. Whereas I'm the kind of person who just let's people get on with their own life and keeps my nose out. But it's getting to the point where I'm getting shi* from everyone for not reporting.
So nobody on here knows me, as I don't know you, so whose better opinions then strangers who are also parents, right?! Please don't give me shi* for it. I don't know what to do.
A family member of mine had her son in April last year. From him being born she has fed him hungry baby milk because "I need my sleep and it makes him sleep". Then as soon as he hit 3 months she fed him jar foods and purees along side the hungry baby milk because "the milk just isn't filling him anymore and I need to sleep". Then she bragged all the Time about him sleeping 12 hours sometimes even 16 hours. Then when he hit 4 months she started with actual food. Then the teeth come, he started sitting up, crawling and even standing. Still bragging about the 16 hour sleep. Well he is now 8 months and he eats pizza, chilli, curry, salmon, wraps, chocolate. Everything. She says he eats what I eat when I eat it. She put a picture of him on Xmas day and his dinner was bigger than mine. She said he ate the lot and then had 2 8oz bottles of milk on top after. When we last spoke he weighed 29lbs. And he still has about 4 8oz bottles of hungry baby milk a day as well as 4 meals and puddings in between. He is in size 18 month clothing. It makes me sad as everyone keeps telling me this is cruel. I'm a first time mum and so is she. She had a baby in lockdown and hasn't had any baby groups to go to or anything like that. The worst thing is she judges me because I haven't weaned my 5 month old yet. She tells me she is going to be so far behind and always has a go. My baby has cmpa so I am waiting to be referred to a dietician before I do anything to be honest.
I just want to keep my nose out but I don't want to see a baby harmed if I can help it. She doesn't listen to what anyone says as she thinks he is thriving and doing so well because he is walking and talking at 8 month. Constantly bragging about it...
Long post but I needed to get it out so thanks for listening.
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MagicalPegasus · 16/01/2021 18:10
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