Not from birth but since Xmas my ds will sleep only properly for day naps in someone’s arms and refusing to sleep in Moses basket in living room. Then at night, won’t sleep in the next to me crib by our bed, so we’ve had to resort to him sleeping in our bed, I really don’t want this to continue for too long in case it becomes a habit plus his twitching drives me mad.
We’ve tried swaddling which sometimes helps especially when he’s twichy, warming up the mattress, putting my worn top so it has my scent, and having Ewan. Only progress was a couple of times he slept in crib and Moses for an hour but I had to pat him when he reached the end of the 20min sleep cycle. Also, I’ve tried putting him down drowsy but awake and got as far (couple of times) as when he gets really tired but cries in distress like he not worked out how to go to sleep lying there. I’ve also put him down when he’s in deep sleep but he wakes up after 20mins. I know he’s not done napping cos he’ll sleep longer in my arms.
I really want him to sleep bit more independently, he’s 2 months old now, I don’t know what to do and am worried this will go on and on if we don’t do anything. Feels like a step backwards cos from birth he’ll sleep happily alone, only from Xmas this has been happening. Or is it best not to intervene, he’s not ready yet, will he just do it in his own time? What will I be expecting coming up to 3 months?
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8 week old baby sleep help
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jamjar84 · 16/01/2021 10:31
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