I’ve been exclusively pumping breast milk for my baby daughter for most of her life (we tried direct breast to start with but latch was an issue and she was then hospitalized for a while and we lost the knack). Anyway, pumping as you know takes its toll. She’s six months and one week old and for the past month or so we have been trying everything to get her to accept formula instead of my bottled breast milk. Anyone been through this who succeeded? So far we have tried the following and nothing has worked... she has never taken more than 2oz.
- tried different formula types giving her a few days in a row of each one to get used to it (we did four types, both ready to drink formula and the powder mixes). Didn’t work.
- tried mixing formula into BM in different ratios. We even did one part formula seven parts BM and like a shark, she still tasted the formula and refused.
- tried waiting until she is super hungry. She took a couple oz but then stops when she has had the bare minimum.
- tried replacing just one feed a day - lunchtime. Then tried replacing morning feed. Then evening feed. None of them took.
- only thing we haven’t tried is cold turkey, whereby she gets no milk at all if she doesn’t take the formula. (Note, when she refuses her formula feed or drinks very little we have NOT given her BM instead that feed. We just end the feed. To avoid training her that she gets BM the minute she refuses formula. She has to wait until the next feed.) Has anyone tried cold turkey and endured a few days of baby taking hardly any volumes of formula until magically they took to it?? Sounds risky and my baby is already on the small side and a small eater, she has max 21-22oz BM per day as it is.
Anyone have any ideas? My mental health is starting to suffer from the pumping, washing, sterilizing, just having to sit down to pump when she needs me to be playing with her or holding her, is really tough on me and my husband. He is wfh and has to stop working to take baby while I pump up to six times a day. I’m desperate!!!