Hi,
I’m not really sure what I’m after here, maybe a little bit of advice. I don’t want to be mumshamed if I’ve done something wrong, I just need someone to give me some advice or tell me it’s normal....
My 7 year old daughter is a worrier. She worries about literally everything. We have to have lists of things around the house so she doesn’t forget things.
For example, we have been doing the ask Alexa how many days Until Christmas. She has written down everything, every word that has been said so she doesn’t forget.
She had a meltdown, sobbing and literally heartbroken because there were 30 children in her class and she couldn’t remember the last person to write a Christmas card to and she didn’t want to leave them out. (I asked the teacher for a list in the end!)
We have a nightly routine, of multiple kisses and cuddles because if she doesn’t wake up she wants to know that we are loved by her.
We have photocopied/scanned all her artwork from school in case it gets damaged or lost.
The teacher sent home extra sequins for her Christmas project because hers kept falling off and she wanted to make sure she had plenty to replace them as she had had a meltdown at school about it.
When I sweep the floors she has to look through the rubbish to make sure nothing has been accidentally swept up.
This is just a small example of what she worries about. She worries about the big things and things she really doesn’t need to.
She is a bright child, does well at school, has loads of friends.
No amount of comforting her worries helps and I’m at a loss what to do. My husband gets angry with her which I hate because she clearly can’t help it but o think he’s frustrated because he can’t help her.
I’m just at a loss, please help x
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Charell20 · 21/12/2020 12:35
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