Hi everyone
So my beautiful 2 week old son is in hospital. We’ve been here since he was 7 days old. He has some kind of infection which is impacting his breathing.
Due to covid, only one parent is allowed on the ward. I’m breastfeeding so my partner has come in to visit for an hour or so at a time whilst I go and wander the corridors of the hospital.
I’m not feeling great in myaelf - I’m recovering from a EMCS and my wound has become infected so I’m on antibiotics. That alongside the sheer exhaustion, I’m not in a great place. I’m getting a couple of hours sleep a day, due to feeding and my son being very fussy and constantly wanting to be held (understandable when he’s so poorly). It just feels a lot to be dealing with on my own. I just want to sleep for a few hours, but the hospital rules won’t allow my partner to watch our son whilst I do this.
My partner has offered for me to go back to my parents for a few hours this afternoon (they’ll need to pick me up as I can’t drive due to CS) to have a shower and sleep. I don’t know what to do though - he’s 2 weeks old and my initial reaction is that I don’t want to leave him at all. But I’m also so so tired, I’m worried I’m burning myself out. Especially when we’re likely to be in here another week or so.
Any advice /guidance/general hand holding would be amazing - Everything feels too much at the moment.
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2 week old in hospital - feeling overwhelmed - hand holding please
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Chalalala90 · 13/12/2020 09:31
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