Hello. I'll try break this down as quick as I can. Basically I have this mum that's not or never has really been a mum. Just one to throw money at you and think it masks over showing love. I have 3 children 1 been my stepchild. She doesn't accept my step child or my youngest. But is obsessed with my daughter. She's a constantl negative vibe she calls me out on all aspects of my parenting when she was NEVER a parent at all. Says my kids are treat like robots because they have meal times and bed times. Again this is because I was up till god nose what time with her. I've recently stopped her seeing all kids as she openly admitted she didn't have to take my step child out because she is nothing to Do with him, but also won't take her grandson out either only my daughter. I've had grief every week when I used to speak to her because I don't take lightly to people telling me how to parent. Since I haven't spoke to her my mental health's improved so much! She's recently had people come to my house and people ring me carrying on with me threatening court to see my daughter etc. I'm drained I think am I doing the right thing? She doesn't listen to me when I ask her to feed my child and the times I ask e.g dinner at 11.30 because that's when she gets hungry and has her dinner at nursery at that time too, driving around all the time with my child in the back all day. I just want her out my life but she said " your daughter will hate you when your older for taking her away from me" I do really feel bad on my child because she really was close to her but I can't have my sons growing up wondering why there not wanted by there nana but my daughter is? I don't no what to think anymore.
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