I am really struggling with my 6 year old's behaviour atm. She has developed a habit of shouting her demands and blaming others for things that are clearly not their fault. Yesterday she shouted that there was too much food on her plate. I told her that wasn't an appropriate tone and that she could sit on the stair for time out so she could come back and be polite. She did the time out but then refused dinner altogether and went to bed hungry. She is so stubborn!
Because of her ongoing rudeness in the evening she now has a consequence of no tv this evening.
I also said she needed to talk to me about it but she refuses to talk and makes out like this is the worst possible thing.
I've been doing so much to try and build our relationship by playing with her (where she leads) and trying to spend one on one time with her at night when I sing to her.
I just find it all so frustrating, as soon as I feel like we're making progress she has an episode like this.
My 9 year old is really well behaved and when she does occasionally lose her temper she will reflect on it and later come back and apologise. But my 6 year old never apologises sincerely (will mumble a sarcastic sorry if I force her to).
I'm just so exhausted with it all. I'm a lone parent (STBXH moved out 2 years ago) and I'm sure some of it is linked to the separation.
Anyways, I'm rambling a bit but I didn't want to drip feed. I am just seeking some solidarity/advice/experiences from others.
Are most 6 year olds rude and self-centred or is it just mine?
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Strategies for dealing with a RUDE six year old
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Spritesobright · 25/11/2020 12:49
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