I've posted lots recently and am very glad of collective MN wisdom.
My second baby is 5 weeks. And I cant help feeling that I've just got it wrong.
She basically lives in the sling. That's not a on exaggeration. She comes out to feed and be changed ( unless we are at the park and in which case it's in the sling). She can be awake - screaming - for 3-4 hours. This is less often in the sling and as long as I'm on it and try to get her off within an hr of her being awake on usually ok.
However- am I teaching her to never self settle? Am I supposed to just put her in a sleepyhead or something and leave her to it? I find the sling restrictive, jobs are hard to do and things like reading DS a story is tough. But at least this way she sleeps for a decent amount of time.
Am I making this difficult down the line? I spend the day trying to be careful with moving so indont disturb her.
I've tried her in the pram and she fell asleep eventually (I mean like after 2 hours) but then toddler woke her up the moment we came in.
Surely other people dont do it like this? I feel useless. Toddler is in childcare today and I wanted to sort his toys but kneeling down with her and trying to move around is SLOW.
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Am I doing this wrong?
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OhToBeASeahorse · 17/11/2020 13:25
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