Hello,
Just wondered if anyone can help me or advise me or just tell me it’s normal!
Since my DS has turned 2 in September, he seems to have had a complete personality change. It’s not even the terrible two’s.
He changed to the Over 2 room in nursery 4 weeks ago and he can’t seem to settle. He used to love going to nursery but now he cries and says he doesn’t want to go. Before he used to be excited. He had to shield during lockdown and even when he went back in August, he was so happy and settled back really well.
The new room is totally different room, different workers and he’s been split from his friends due to Corona so they have their own little bubbles. But it’s been a month now and he still doesn’t seem like he enjoys it much. The nursery has a camera system so I know that they are engaging with him, being loving towards him but he seems to be having meltdowns in the morning or towards the end of the day. They do tell us but I don’t know what to do? They said it could be the room change but what can they do?
He also seems to be waking up during the night again, crying for cuddles and wanting to come into our bed. We let him, give him lots of kisses and cuddles etc. We are very loving towards him (maybe a bit too much but don’t know if that’s an issue??).
He seems like he’s going through some sort of separation anxiety again. I don’t know if this phase is common at 2 years old?
Also he gets really upset at the Happy Birthday song, I don’t know why!! He can’t string sentences or express himself yet so I can’t even ask him why.
I don’t know what to do! I feel so sad for him. He seems like he’s got toddler depression or something. He was such a happy confident child to now a child who is apprehensive, gets upset easily etc.
I don’t know whether lockdown didn’t help as he had to shield and didn’t see much of anyone! But he went back to nursery in August and he was fine.
The change seems to have coincided with the nursery room change, him turning 2 etc.
Help!!
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bananainpjs · 28/10/2020 14:51
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