I love being a mum, I love my daughter but it's been a rough two years for me and I just need to vent. She's been a shite sleeper since day one but she's amazing otherwise but......
By now I thought I would have stopped breastfeeding day and nights. She has two main feeds then little comfort feeds. It's these 2 mins comfort feeds I want to cut out and I've tried everything. I'm getting to the point where I want to stop my milk artificially.
I thought I’d have my evenings back, instead of half an hour bed time routine and then sitting for half an hour patting her to sleep like the sleep nurse said. Yeah thanks, just replaced one sleep crutch with another.
I thought she would have been eating three solid meals and three snacks a day. She's like a cow who grazes and then decides she doesn't want to eat, but then she wants more boob, I say no, she strops. If she doesn't have enough to eat during the day she's up more at night and guess what she wants ..... boob.
I thought I would have lost the two stone I put on in my first year of motherhood instead I rely on sugar for a quick hit of energy.
I feel like an absolute failure
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bigpinkdinosaur · 27/10/2020 21:00
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