My daughter is 6 years old and I ended the marriage to her dad before she was 2. She doesn't remember us being together but has seen photos. She met my current partner when she was 2 and a half and loved him instantly. She is still very close with him as he is so attentive to her and will play for hours. The three of us live together, are happy and have no issues.
My daughter visits her dad and his partner around 2/3 nights a week. They live close by and all 4 of us adults get on fine (even though I think he's an aggressive prick, but she doesn't know that!).
Recently she asks questions such as "did you ever love my dad?" Which I found awkward but tried to answer in a way that would be a comfort to her.
Recently she has got tearful and told her dad that she is sad we aren't together.
I find it strange as she has never really known us together and likes both of our partners but I guess a lot of it is down to knowing that her peers have a mum and dad in the same house.
Anyone experienced this or similar and have any tips on what to say/do to make her feel better?
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6 year old upset that her dad and I aren't together. Help!
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EmmieG11 · 11/09/2020 19:35
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