Hi , just a advice thing here. I have a mum that constantly patronises me. I have 2 children both boys. She had my youngest since been a baby a couple times over night built a massive bond with him. BUT my second one she didn't because he was a poorly baby and she never acted the same with him always put my first over him. My youngest got very poorly which caused me to have bad anxiety and depression so I wouldn't let them out my site. My mum then slandered me about it was excuses etc. Always saying she wouldn't cope with my youngest ( he's literally good as gold) he has his fare share of been a 1 year old tantrums but she had 3 kids? Which she never looked after properly 🙄 , always favouritsed us and she does that with the grandchildren now. She makes my eldest the favourite and I don't agree with it. I finally booked up the courage to let her have my youngest and her outcome was negative ( if he cries he's coming home) course he's going to cry he has no bond with you you haven't made time for him! , long story short I said to her if your going to mistreat my son and push him out you have nothing to do with them. Her answer was " ok that's fine can I still speak to the eldest?" I said you won't speak to any now you have confirmed you feel no way about my youngest if you can still speak to my eldest. She was furious called me every name under the sun said i needed mental help etc. I don't think I'm in the wrong but she has a way of making me feel like a horrid parent. She wasn't the best either! I've stopped her having contact as I won't let her do that to my son so she continues to throw abuse when seeing me tells all her friends her side of the story and they look at me like a bad person. I can't do with the toxicness no more.
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