My girls are 6 and 4 and I find my older daughter to not be very protective of her when compared to my friend with kids of same ages. For example today another kid was pushing my younger daughter right in front of my older daughter and she just stood there un phased by it all and didn’t think to say anything or even just to move her younger sister away. Obviously it’s my responsibility to protect them both etc but I’m just worried when I’m not around (at school playground or play dates etc) I expect her to have a sense of responsibility towards her younger sister. Funny enough the younger one is more protective of the older. She will never take something without taking one for her older sister (another thing we find older dd doesn’t naturally do)
Any advice on how I can help instil a stronger sense or protectiveness in her? They have a nice relationship together, normal bickering and arguments over who has whose toy or who did what first but nothing unusual but overall play together all day etc.
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Older sibling not very protective of younger sister..what to do ?
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anotheranxiousmum · 16/07/2020 21:34
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