So my 4 year old seems to love making a mess. I don’t think it’s cute or funny, not when I spend ages in a day cleaning up after him at multiple times!
We have just moved in a house and he now has his own playroom downstairs where he can keep all his toys and do play dough, kinetic sand etc.
I came home today with the house full of all the toys, kinetic sand in the new carpet etc. Yesterday his uncle came over (6 years old) and no joke, they took all the clothes out the drawers, bedding all off, every toy emptied and I made them tidy all
the mess they had made.
I have no shame in saying that I will make him tidy up his mess, of course I will help but I also think they need to learn early on that once they’re finished with one game it needs to be tidied away.
DH hasn’t helped saying i’m too harsh and he’s just a child which has made me doubt myself!
What age do you make your kids tidy up their mess? (toys, play dough etc)?
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DH thinks i’m being unreasonable with my expectations for 4 year old,AIBU?
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Maddie2019 · 30/06/2020 17:32
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