My DH wants another baby. I don't. I had a 4yr old DD when we met and he's been an amazing stepfather to her. We got married and had a little boy who's now 3. He wants another, "to keep our son company" as they'd be closer in age. I don't. I have been a mum since 20 years of age, I have struggled to build up a career for myself, battled PND and really struggled with my children's behaviour on times. Despite all this, I have worked hard and I have a job I adore, and I am currently in my 2nd year training as a RN. DH feels we should have a baby now so that it's "out of the way" and he says "we coped before, one more won't hurt" but I completely disagree. If I have another baby, my career is going to take a back seat like it has most of my life. I feel it's time for me. Am I being selfish? A 3rd child would just put strain on every aspect on my life financially, physically and mentally.
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