Hi all quick message
My ex and I have been through mediation twice regarding DD.
Current arrangement is he has her every other weekend. As we both agreed in mediation.
This weekend isn’t his actual weekend to have her but I text him two weeks ago to say he can of course have her Sunday with it being Father’s Day. He asked if he could pick her up two hours earlier than normal which I agreed to. For background he’s very emotionally abusive and projects on to me all the time, it’s been hell.
So he’s asked if she can stay Saturday night this weekend because it’s a special weekend and I said no because I’m on a training course all week mim - fri and he had her Saturday Sunday just gone and he’s having her this Sunday so I’d like the full day with her which is my Day anyway.
So I’ve been hit with a torrent of abuse this morning saying I’m exhausting to deal with, unreasonable and ‘heaven forbid he should ask for a night with his daughter before fathers day’.
What would you have done in my shoes?
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Amethystmoons · 16/06/2020 08:58
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