He is a very sensitive boy, and does cry a lot, but surely lots of 4 year olds do?
We have talked a bit about this before, as I suppose I was always a little worried about how his peers would react (knowing what children can be like).
I just said that there is nothing wrong with crying, but you shouldn't cry unless you have hurt yourself or you feel really sad, not just if you feel a bit sad.
Its so hard to quantify these things. To a 4 year old falling over and scraping your knee is a big thing.
He was so looking forward to starting school to see all his friends and now two of his closest friends have said they don't want to be his friend because he cries too much.
Ds said to me "I only cry when I hurt myself Mummy,like you said, but I hurt myself a lot"
He is a bit clumsy, and I can imagine in trying to keep up with his friends in the playground he would fall over a lot.
I am probably over reacting, I know these things are so said, but he looked so crestfallen. Any advice any one?
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How do help your 4 year old ds to not cry so much, as he is loosing friends [sad]
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Overrun · 18/09/2007 16:04
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