Okay so....we are trying to conceive our first child. My husband has 3 boys from a previous relationship. I have no children of my own.
I have always dreamed of having girls and because my husband already has boys he’d love a girl too.
I was raised by my single Mum and she is absolutely my best friend. We are really close, talk all the time and love going out for days together. I really hope I have a girl so I could have the same relationship with my daughter.
My question is, is it possible to have the same type of relationship with a son? I mean as they grow up? I’ve always thought when boys become men they have less to do with their Mother’s and eventually if they get married they’d spend more time with the wife’s family. As generally daughters are closer to their Mum.
The thought of not having the same kind of relationship with my child, that I have with my Mum fills be with dread. And I genuinely worry it won’t the the same if I don’t have a girl. It really scares me that my husband can only produce boys??
Am I being stupid? What experience do people with adult sons have? Is it the same as a Mother/Daughter relationship?
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KAD14 · 03/05/2020 15:34
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