One of my parents dogs has been put down today. He has been ill for some time.
My parents came over with the other dog after they'd been to the vets but i hadn't had a chance to say anything to dd who is 3.
She only mentioned the other dog once and that was in passing. She has never seen one without the other and she loves playing with them. They are/were little shit tzu's so not very playful and not very social with her but she used to have fun and she used to love 'trying' to stroke them.
Now, what do i say to her about the dead dog? We go there a few times a week so it's not as if I can say nothing. Whenever we go there she runs in shouting their names and is bound to ask where he is.
Dh wants to say he's gone somewhere else as he doesn't want to introduce her to the concept of death.
I have no idea what to say to her. Plus I am a bit upset myself as are my parents so don't know if it will be better coming from dh now for her to get used to the idea or do I leave it till I next go there and tell her as we walk in or just before we go in?
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Pixiefish · 21/08/2007 16:56
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