I have a 9 month old and ever since I found out I was pregnant I have felt trapped.
I have a very supportive partner, and quite an easy baby - hes cute, he smiles and laughs at everything but that makes it somehow worse.
I couldn't bring myself to kiss him until he was 4 months, I just wanted to run away the whole time. I could only interact with him by copying my partner. I struggle when referring to him, I still cant quite say "my son" it doesn't feel right.
I still sometimes want to run away but I think we have bonded to some extent now, though it feels more like Stockholm syndrome.
I panic horribly about him becoming sick, or having an accident or worst case scenarios like nuclear war.
I never told my partner why but when I was 24 weeks pregnant I started sobbing uncontrollably one night and couldn't tell him it was because I realised I was now too late to have an abortion and there was no way out.
Is this what pnd is? Or am I just not good at being a parent and probs shouldn't have had a baby?
I dont think I'm very maternal, if I knew he would be safe I could probably walk away one day but I dont want to leave my partner.
I dont really know what I'm asking here, is this somewhat normal? Do I need to speak to a dr?
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Panda368 · 08/08/2019 20:27
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