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Double pram vs Public transport

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Lunafortheloveogod · 14/07/2019 13:10

This is probably done to the dogs but I’ve emailed our bus company for measurements and they told me to phone each morning, like that’ll help me buy a pram that’ll fit Confused,

Next year I’ll have two under 1, yes I’m insane no it really wasn’t planned and no I’ll never make direct eye contact with a man again since I’m apparently super fertile after struggling with ds.

I rely on public transport, a lot, I can’t drive and dm has a tiny car that doesn’t even fit my single pram, so I’m up a creek with no paddle for lifts.

I really don’t want a tandem with the baby in the basket look.. I wouldn’t want to stare at my dsis’s rear end for possibly two years of my life. And I’m highly unlikely to be out with one until ds is in nursery or walking far enough and not napping (were 2miles each way from the shop)

I need a double that fits through a regular bus, no back doors, just a wheelchair and a pram space, id love a side by side that can parent face, with a carrycot for tiny and ds can pick n choose his outlook. I do love the bugaboo donkey.. but i don’t know if it fits, and I certainly won’t manage to take a baby out to hold while I reduce it for the journey, assuming ds won’t be reliably mobile at 10months when I’m induced.

I’ve looked at the mountain buggy online, can’t seem to find a shop that stocks it to actually get a feel for it though. Again pushing it for roughly 5miles a day it needs to be a war horse.

I’ll try and add a picture of our buses interiors if it helps. But double prams and buses? What’s the best suggestions?

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NotSoThinLizzy · 14/07/2019 13:13

My bugaboo donkey fits through house doors dont know it that helps any

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Soubriquet · 14/07/2019 13:14

Out n about double

I’ve had one and it’s the same size as a single even if it doesn’t look it

It fitted through our small doorway and I have taken it in a bus

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CatToddlerUprising · 14/07/2019 13:17

What will you do if someone in a wheelchair gets on? You won’t have a choice about collapsing it unless you get off the bus and wait for the next one. That may factor into choosing a pushchair

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picklemepopcorn · 14/07/2019 13:19

Consider using a sling and a single for a while, and later a single and buggy board.

You will need a double, but have options for not using it all the time.

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BackforGood · 14/07/2019 13:20

I can't advise on particular prams as I'm way past that stage, but, realistically, how often will you need to go places on the bus?

When I had 2 littlies, I borrowed a tandem, and found it really difficult to get on with - far too heavy to manouvre anywhere. I then bought a 'side by side' pushchair and it was great. Much easier to manouver. Both dc could see. Still had basket underneath for 'stuff'.

Will you mostly be able to walk to places, then get an occasional taxi when you need one? Or, realistically do you need to bus to get anywhere ?

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Judashascomeintosomemoney · 14/07/2019 13:27

I had my DDs 14 mths apart. We had the mountain buggy urban double (thinks they’ve updated their branding names now). Didn’t ever find a door we couldn’t get through. Super light and manoeuvrable with one hand. Really really easy to collapse down and reinstate. I tried a LOT at the time and it was far and away the best all rounder.

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OneForTheRoadThen · 14/07/2019 13:29

Unless those buses have back doors I think you will struggle to get a side by side round the pole.

Have you looked at some of the newer tandems that allow the lower seat to face you and the higher seat to face out? The new version of the iCandy Peach does and I believe the iCandy Orange does too. You can get them secondhand for good prices.

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PolkadotLollipop · 14/07/2019 13:32

I’d second the idea of sling and single but I think you need to get on board with the idea of the modern tandem styles as side by sides are just going to be too cumbersome.

Congratulations on your pregnancy Flowers

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4under4our · 14/07/2019 13:34

My donkey fits (just).

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DappledThings · 14/07/2019 13:35

I had a Mountain Buggy Duet and it fitted onto all buses. Even those little mini ones. 4 or 5 different bus sizes in 3 different towns!

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beforeIhit30 · 14/07/2019 13:38

I had two under 2yo in a side by side Maclaren which served us fine on public transport. But, important points to note: no parent facing (but from usable from birth), lighter than other doubles (but still heavier than our single, understandably), relatively easy to fold but no one hand fold.

Big issue - width. The Maclaren was one of the least wide (I think saying ‘narrow’ would be pushing it Grin) and much shorter (from back to door) so didn’t jut our lots from the space on a bus or train. I wouldn’t be confident boarding a bus at the front, we used to get on at the back, however your aisles may be wider given there’s only the one entrance and must be wide enough for a wheelchair I would assume. However the larger Bugaboos like the Donkey are massive (compared to something like a single and carrier or simpler side by sides or inlines), and I can’t imagine getting one on any bus easily (especially navigating an aisle, even if it’s wide).

Also, it sounds like you are much further out from amenities. We could walk to a lot of places easily so were only contending with buses occasionally, and also had a very accessible train nearby. If you’re using buses a lot I think it will be trickier. Like others have mentioned, a wheelchair user may need to board and will take priority, or when the bus arrives there may already be a pram or wheelchair on board and you may not fit especially with a side by side.

Like others have mentioned, we often used a sling and lightweight stroller - if we stopped somewhere, DC1 could sit in a high chair and DC2 in the stroller - then later on when DC1 wasn’t napping and was walking more we had DC2 in the stroller and DC1 on a buggy board. This was by far the easier approach and much more flexible for public transport, around shops etc. We got the side by side because we did a lot of walking without needing public transport or shops, eg to big parks, so for the time that DC1 wasn’t quite ready to drop naps or stand/walk all day but DC2 was getting bigger and I didn’t want to carry all day the side by side was useful. We probably used it for about 6-9 months for that specific time period, but still used the sling and stroller option too. The Maclaren was relatively affordable (about £215 at the time IIRC).

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beforeIhit30 · 14/07/2019 13:42

It was the Maclaren Twin Triumph that we had (forgot to mention the specific style!).

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stucknoue · 14/07/2019 13:55

I used a lie flat double umbrella stroller but it was front facing only. It's essential that whatever pushchair you buy you realise that you must be able to collapse for wheelchair users (and cope with both kids) so perhaps consider a tougher walk only option then a lightweight public transport and car option (umbrella buggies fit in boots!)

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Lunafortheloveogod · 14/07/2019 14:00

We use the buses to pretty much go anywhere that isn’t a co op and most are an hour of a journey, hence the collapsing it down and keeping it steady with two kids being beyond difficult.
I’ve tried a sling/ ring,wrap and carrier with ds but I’m hyper mobile so at 10lbs I can’t even make it to the shop and back with him or sit with it for the hour on the bus. We’re really rural.

If a wheelchair gets on we get off, we do that already with prams as there’s literally no where to store a folded pram on the bus even a single. Unless it’s a tiny holiday buggy or umbrella fold and it’s not busy.

The isles wide enough for a standard wheelchair but I’ve not a clue how big a standard chair is Hmm.

The icandys on my list but I’m not keen incase ds doesn’t want to face out yet.. he’s already a clingy little dude and likes company Grin

I’ll add the others to my looking list 😂

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OneForTheRoadThen · 14/07/2019 14:19

@Lunafortheloveogod the iCandy can have both seats facing you, but the newer ones can have the seats facing in opposite ways which is useful when they are older. Sorry I didn't clearly explain before x

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Lunafortheloveogod · 14/07/2019 14:23

Stucknoue.. yes I’ll walk 45 miles for my sons milk and any Pediatrics appointments in future Thankyou for your stellar suggestion. We have no where to store collapsed prams when a wheelchair gets on so unless you shove it up your rear end and waddle with two infants you get off.

I’d prefer a carrycot as we’ll probably have another premie if my pre E comes back so I don’t feel comfortable with a 3-5lb baby in a lay flat buggy for said 5 mile walks for day to day shops or to get the bus.. and considering ds’s holiday umbrella doesn’t fit in dm’s car I highly double a double umbrella does 😂.. and I also can’t see her buying another car to ferry me about (I can’t drive at all and dp worked Monday to Friday 9-6 with occasional saturdays so again I’m not only leaving the house on Sundays when I have a folding assistant and I highly doubt the budget will allow for driving lessons and a car while buying baby things)

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FamilyOfAliens · 14/07/2019 14:28

In your shoes, with so many factors stacked against travelling comfortably with small children, I would learn to drive.

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DappledThings · 14/07/2019 14:32

You can get a carrycot for the Mountain Buggy too. It fits into the lie flat seat. I do think it would meet all your needs.

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ClaudiaWankleman · 14/07/2019 14:37

@Lunafortheloveogod I think you’ve really misread the tone of stucknoe’s post.

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PotteringAlong · 14/07/2019 14:43

I really don’t want a tandem with the baby in the basket look.. I wouldn’t want to stare at my dsis’s rear end for possibly two years of my life

You see, mine used to argue (when they were old enough to do so) about who got to go in the bottom seat. The bottom seat of the Phil and Teds is like a den and thus the most highly prized seat!

I’d go Phil and teds. It’s the best public transport option and it seems like that the most important thing in your situation.

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djtxtmstr92 · 14/07/2019 14:45

I am out of touch with modern buggies, but I had a lot of small children, dont drive and was reliant on buses and walking for school runs. At times I had a triple and a sling, or an older child pushing a single! However,what I found the most useful was the Graco type tandem (some shops made their own but they were interchangeable), with a car seat clipped on. Advantage was that if I had to fold, due to wheelchair or non-accessible bus, baby was able to be lifted on while I folded pushchair and helped toddler on. I have to say, it was very rare that someone didnt jump up help me get them on and off, usually an elderly person. Good luck on your adventure, x

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Mamamooligans · 14/07/2019 16:37

I've seen baby jogger city select on the bus. It is a tandem but inline so not the type where baby is the basket.

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SleepingStandingUp · 14/07/2019 16:49

Ah read for help but this isn't helping lol. I'm expecting twins winter and we rely on the bus!
I can't learn to drive whilst pregnant (yes you're totally right, I should have learnt before having more kids but hindsight and all that..) and DS has appts in the next city over which is an hour by bus so the so perhaps consider a tougher walk only option doesn't work for me either.

@Lunafortheloveogod if you find one that fits two carrycot / prams on let me know, totally agree about tiny new borns in basically a pram with padding, I hate it

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DappledThings · 14/07/2019 17:01

if you find one that fits two carrycot / prams on let me know

Going to mention the Mountain Buggy Duet again! It fits two carrycots, fits on all public transport and through most single doors without a problem.

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PotteringAlong · 14/07/2019 17:19

I can't learn to drive whilst pregnant

I’m fairly sure that’s not true...

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