changed my name for this one............
im totally fed up with banging my head against a brick wall with my ds (17)
ive been a single parent for ten yrs and never had any financiial or emotional support from my ex dh in all that time, my eldest ds has been a constant struggle to keep him on the right path in life, to cut a very very long story short,he has alot of resentment towrds me for my divorce from his dad,even though it was his dad that left me,he blames me for everything that happens to him in his life,in his eyes im his mother and anything he does wrong is my fault because i bought him up.
he left home at 15 to live with his g/f at the time,i tried endlessly to stop it happening but to no avail (social services were shite) he stayed there for a year then split up with g/f and i took him back home even though i knew it wouldnt work as he has no respect for me and has a violent temper.but he is my son and i feel i have no altenative.
i was right,it hasnt worked and in the past month my son has spat on me,thrown a party at my home while i was away for the weekend,kicked a door in,been arrested for theft,the list is endless.....
my ds is with his father at the mo and has been for 3 weeks, (his dad lives 90 miles away as i moved to get away from him!) he wants to come home tomorrow and i dont want him back.
its a dreadfull thing to say about my own son but the way he behaves with me is making me hate him.
ive literally put my life on hold for the past ten yrs to bring my boys up the best i can,ive always worked to provide for them and have never had a b/f since their dad left as i wanted to concentrate on bringing my children up.
i feel stuck,and cant take anymore of this.
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hadenuffnow · 21/07/2007 15:24
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