I get that ideally you should always have a united front in front of the children, but what if the other parent is plain wrong?
2 examples, tonight there was an argument between my 6 year old and her dad about a "massive scratch on her face" she was crying and saying it wasnt there, he was then even more annoyed with her for arguing with him. She came in to me and I had a look, the massive scratch down her face was about half a cm long and hadn't even drawn blood. I said I wouldn't say it was a massive scratch but you have a small one at the top of your nose. He was pissed off with me for siding with her.
Then last week, she was coming downstairs and slipped down 1 step. He was in the kitchen and shouted at her for running downstairs, I said she wasn't running, he then had a go at me as he knew she was, he wasn't near the stairs and hadn't seen anything.
There have been other things too where he has told her off for doing something when I know she hasn't and he's then been pissed off with me for contradicting him.
I feel like I need to back my daughter up but am I doing the wrong thing here?
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Backing up the other parent, what would you have done?
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TescoValueUserName · 21/02/2019 20:33
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