She's a stroppy little madam (6 years old) and me and Dh have had problems disciplining her recently. She won't stay on the naughty step (probably outgrown it), seems completely disinterested in star charts/incentives, or us shouting or putting her to bed early etc, We've also tried praising the good ignoring the bad to a certain extent but she's a strong willed, hot headed little thing and I'm coming to the end of my tether with her, she's upsetting our family life.
This evening she was mucking about at the dinner table with her sister (also 6), using her fingers, swinging around in her seat, opening her mouth to show everyone her half eaten food, etc etc. She and her sister got several warnings from me and DH, her sister stopped being silly, but stroppy DD didn't. She decided to shout out "you're a bossy bum hole" to me instead . This is a lovely term she seems to have picked up from school and which she knows me and Dh hate her using. I grabbed her dinner, threw it all in the kitchen bin in front of her and sent her to her bedroom. She went ballistic, screaming and shouting (she loves her food). When she had calmed down she apologised, promised she would try and behave and not use bad words so I feel that this has worked, but DH thinks I was a bit harsh chucking her food in the bin.
Sorry this is so long and I'm rambling on, but I need help with her. I'm terrified of fast forwarding ten years and having a stroppy abusive 16 year old towering over me and using much worse words
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Was I wrong to throw DD's dinner in the bin?
sandyballs · 03/07/2007 21:49
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