DS was hurt at school yesterday – another kid barged into him in the playground, he cracked his head on the concrete and was out cold for a minute or so. They called us to collect him (though didn’t mention he was unconscious, just said he’d banged his head) and after 5 hours in A&E they said he has a severe concussion. He now can’t go back to school to finish his year, must rest quietly in a dark room, and is really fed up with a stonking headache.
This wasn’t an accident, the same kid has been picking on him in a fairly minor way for months (hiding his lunch bag, kicking his ball into the nettles so a teacher has to go get it, shoving him in the lunch queue, telling him ‘nobody wants you here’ and so on) and immediately admitted he had done this. DS has come home several times very glum and we’ve had numerous conversations with his class teacher and the Head who all assure us the other kid just plays a bit rough and that DS ‘gives as good as he gets’ (I’m not claiming he is an angel as I’m sure he’s not, though we’ve never been spoken to about his inappropriate behaviour or told he has injured anyone else).
Teacher called last night, apologised, said the ‘rough’ kid has been talked to along with his parents and has written a letter of apology to DS (which he won’t get as he can’t go back to school).
I’m fed up and I don’t think this resolves it. I slept on it, thinking ‘it’s the end of the year and I should let this go’ but I’m still mad about it today. I’ve made an appointment to talk to the Head tomorrow but I’m not sure I can articulate what I want. It’s not about punishing the other kid, it’s more about creating a bully-free environment within the school. My kid shouldn’t be worrying about if someone is going to hurt him whilst he’s at school. AIBU to insist that this event is recorded somewhere so that any future events can also be tied to this? Or, what should I be insisting upon?
FWIW I am also a governor at the school. So, I don’t think writing a letter of complaint to the governing body is going to help at all and will just be seen as favouritism. But I also know that generally speaking, bullying within the school is actually not a major issue.
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Hurt by a bully, school sweeping under the rug
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xandersmom2 · 19/07/2018 18:51
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