My dm is not very healthy ,has had a stroke couple year ago and has weight problems etc ,her doctor has told her she must change her lifestyle now as her health is getting worse ,she eats rubbish ,she's 57 years old and eats foods like pot noodles and readyvmeals cos she can't be bothered cooking ,she doesn't work ,refuses to do voluntary work ,so just sits and watches daytime TV ,no exercise ,so yesterday she tells me that she thought she was taking a heart attack in middle of night ,then goes on to say can she have oldest granddaughter over to stay tonight as she needs company (dd is11) to which I reply no u cannot if u need company then u need to get off the sofa and make an effort to meet friends etc ,I told her she can't be responsible for a child if she is feeling like she could take a heart attack at any minute ,she told me to stop being a drama queen that dd would just phone an ambulance and it would all be fine ,wtf ,how selfish and irresponsible is this to want to put her granddaughter in this situation ,i am livid with her for even suggesting this staying over idea
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