Hoping for a bit of advice...
Our DD is 3mo and EBF. I feed her to sleep each evening after her bath and it can take anything from 1-3h to settle her in her cot. I then do the night feeds (normally 2 or 3), again feeding her to sleep before putting her back in her cot.
This means that I do everything for our DD between about 6.30pm each evening until 7am the following morning and am constantly exhausted. Meanwhile DH has a free evening and a good night's sleep, and I'm really starting to resent this.
He works full time so don't expect him to wake up for all the feeds during the week but feel like there must be something he can do to support me Fri and Sat nights. Just not sure what it is. Any suggestions??
Whenever I try to raise it with him he says I've created the situation as I chose to breastfeed so there's nothing he can do to help. This just feels like a bit of a cop out though. Is it totally unreasonable of me to think he should maybe wake up with me sometimes just to keep me company? Or is it just a bit vindictive of me to want him to be a bit knackered too?!
I'm so braindead I can't work out if I'm just being harsh and need to accept that dads get an easier ride when it comes to nighttime or if he should be more supportive. 🤔
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Support from DH at night with baby
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doobeedoo2 · 22/06/2018 19:42
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