DD is 11, year 7. She has always been sensitive and keen to please, setting herself high expectations and working hard. The first year of secondary school has been up and down, but she Hs coped admirably. One thing that I have noticed though ,is the anxiety she seems to be going through, which is manifesting itself as aggression and meltdowns. I'm unsure if I should be doing more than offering solutions to her working through her worries, and reassuring her that we still love her ( despite her telling is she hates us, we only love her sibling, she is going to leave etc) . She is consequenced for actions such as throwing things and banging doors, threatening her sibling, but we always help her to calm down ( more than an hour. Sometimes) and cuddle her before bed ; often, tiredness plays a part as these meltdowns are nearly always at night.
But should I be seeking external help?
Any advice welcome!
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Supporting an anxious child, but how?
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Olivo · 16/06/2018 20:47
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