My son is coming up to 16 months (first child). We have gone to the odd baby group since he's been born but I've never really enjoyed them.
My HV came today for a development check, all good, thriving, etc. She asked if I go to baby/toddler groups. I said "occasionally". She said I really need to start going properly to give DS a chance to learn to socialise. I agree to an extent.
Anyway after she left, it's been playing on my mind all day and I know feel like a rubbish parent
I'll admit DS doesn't really have many other kids in his life. My close friend has a DD a few months younger and is due another soon. My cousin has a son a little older. Trouble is, I only see my friend every two weeks or so. And I rarely get to see my cousin and her boy, as I work part time and my cousin's son goes to his father half the week (schedules clash). He doesn't and probably won't ever have cousins.
I work 3 days a week (one day on weekend). On my days off, we sometimes to go Rhyme Time at the library. Aside from that, we go the park, run errands, go shopping, go the park, play at home, go to library, visit family so we are usually busy (we got in down time as well).
I just now feel incredibly guilty that I'm depriving my son of a chance to socialise?? I WILL be going to a local group I went to a couple of times before but I haven't been recently as my son's naps went to shit (waking at 4 30am so napping during the time of the baby group which was obviously more important to let my toddler sleep!)
My son is with my mum 2 says a week when I work, not nursery. He will also be going to a playgroup when he's 2 (leave him there for a couple of hours but is for age 2+) and we are hoping to TTC again soon so will hopefully have another sibling next year!
Sorry for the long post but my HV has really made me feel like crap today because I don't regularly take him to a baby/toddler group. Am I doing wrong by my son for not taking him to groups?
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Are baby/toddler groups necessary? Feeling rubbish.
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Chocolateismyvice · 13/06/2018 18:04
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