This is bit of a rant but all advice also appreciated please.
I'm married with a lovely toddler. I work and my OH is long term unemployed (4 years). Until very recently we had a nanny for 2 days a week to try and help him with job hunting. It didn't. I'm both really sympathetic and pretty angry; he's been to one interview and seems happy staying at home. He is not actively looking for work.
The thing is that we'd like to have another baby but my parents 're of the view it's irresponsible if my OH won't work and the burden is all on me. The have a point....I'm knackered and all the running of the household is on my shoulders. It's just assumed I'll crack on and he can choose to stay at home if he wants. I know that being at home with a child is hard work but it was never my choice to go out and work while he didnt - I married believing we would both work and I would take the lions share of childcare if I wanted. I actually moved half way across the country to support him with business ventures....I have been v supportive even if I sound angry here.
I'm angry, skint and confused. Now his parents are talking about moving near us. As if my OH doesn't have it enough his own way already...
Sorry for the rant. But feeling massively underappreciated and taken advantage of here. Grrr.
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PandaCub · 28/05/2018 01:02
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