Hello, I had my second boy almost 10 weeks ago (also have an almost 4 year old boy) and we’re thinking about getting pregnant again within the next few months. I’m in two minds about whether the timing is right, I wouldn’t get any money coming in for a second maternity leave and obviously having 3 kids is expensive as it is. However I feel like if we were to do it again I’d want it to be sooner rather than later. I’m 30 this year and I always said I would have all my babies in my twenties. However I’ve also had an ectopic pregnancy before I had my rainbow and the risk of it happening again is still the same as it was before (I only have one tube) and I don’t want to risk having surgery again if it did turn out to be ectopic and something happening to me and my babies would be without their Mum.
I definitely don’t feel ‘done’ having babies (and I hate to admit that I would really love a little girl) but the risks/down sides to having a third somehow outweigh the positives at the moment. When and how did you decide on having a third?
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Rach1311 · 15/05/2018 07:40
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