Our 3.5 year old is going through a tantrum phase. I confess she's probably been spoilt as thus far we've taken the gentle parenting approach of trying to give her what she wants through compromise and options but she's at a stage now where you can't say no to her without it turning into a flipping melt down. My husband has a really low stress tolerance and panics when the kids are panicking or being bratty. This results in us arguing while DD is also tantrum.
My questions are
- how do you deal with a 3.5 year old who doesn't accept no. Let them cry?
- how do I explain to my husband that it's not good for a child to see their parents argue? Any official/research based readings are much appreciated.
- is this just a phase? Or is she just going to tantrum her way through childhood? I honestly don't think I can do it