Hi all. I hope someone can help as am feeling a bit desperate!
So we are on day one of potty training DD (2 years and 8 months). I've been putting it off as I had DS four months ago, plus before that I just didn't feel she was ready or had the necessary level of understanding. Anyway. I read a book (Oh Crap if anyone's interested) and planned the date in advance. I felt very ready...but day one has been an absolute disaster!! DD pissing all over the floor and refusing to get it or just not understanding. I have tried so hard to be patient (not easy with a baby to look after and being sleep deprived) but in the end both me and DH lost it at her...and then each other. He blames me for not talking him through it more. I'm angry because I've been talking about little else for ages, shared the book with him ages ago, urged him to at least read the one page cheat sheet for dad's...and he hasn't. I feel like it's all been on me and he hasn't any right to have a go at me.
Basically I'm wondering what to do now. I really don't want to back down as the book strongly advises not to...but I just don't think i can take another day of this! I don't know if she's resisting because she understands but just doesn't want to, or she doesn't actually understand? In which case that's a whole other set of problems as I would have thought at almost 3, she'd be getting it.
I feel like an absolute failure as a parent and just so ashamed for losing my cool. Terrified we've traumatised her about it.
Any tips or advice for where next would be hugely appreciated! TIA.
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Potty training hell with almost 3 yr old
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WhoAteAllthePercyPigs · 16/03/2018 18:38
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