My son is 4 in a few weeks time and over the last month he’s being a nightmare when it comes to meals.
Up until recently he has been ok at breakfast and lunch but come his evening meal he really tests our patience. He pushes the food around his pace, constantly whining that he doesn’t want it and this would go on for ages until it got to the point sometimes that we had to feed it to him to get him to eat it.
We realised this couldn’t go on so we then introduced a sand timer and he was allowed 10 minutes to start actively eating his meal and if he wasn’t making an attempt to eat it then it was taken off him. Far more often than not he wouldn’t even have touched it. We followed through on this and when we took his plate away he would be in hysterics, crying and telling us he wanted it and trying to pull the plate back out of our hands. We did give it him back if he reacted like that and then he’d typically start eating it but still being really slow. Dinner time was usually taking up to an hour from start to finish.
He’s now started refusing his breakfast too. We’d ask him what he wanted and then when we gave it to him he’s play around with it for about 5 minutes and then the whining of “I don’t want it” starts again.
This morning, after the whining began, I told him that he had 10 minutes to start eating it and then I would take it away. After those 10 minutes he hadn’t touched it so I took it away and he didn’t put up a fight at all and just went off to play with his toys.
No doubt in a few hours he will start telling me he’s hungry which he obviously will be. But then what do I do? Should he be allowed to refuse his breakfast and then still be given snacks later? What incentive does that give him to eat his breakfast in the morning?
Has anyone else been in a similar situation?
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QueenofmyPrinces · 25/02/2018 08:06
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