My son is 2.5 and I am 6 months pregnant. As a non-driving family with a lot of distance to cover getting to work, nursery etc, we have relied heavily on our stroller. We have a nice all terrain buggy which folds small and is easy to move with one hand and carries a decent amount of shopping (Baby Jogger City Mini GT, if your interested - highly recommend), so it’s used all the time. Now that DS2 is on the way though, we have been trialling walking everywhere with DS1. What a nightmare!
If he is in a good mood it’s fine. Neutral moods always descent into bad moods though.
He ran away a lot, so we got toddler reins, which he hates and if he is in a bad mood he will twist away, tug at them, refuse to move...but without them he has been known to let go of my hand, run out of sight or into dangerous situations.
In shops, he tends to try picking everything up and it takes ages to get him to put the things back where he got them, and the last thing I need is to have to pay for something if he starts eating it (not done this yet btw, but I anticipate it happening).
You know how you get your shopping bag ready and dig out your change or debit card in queues? Yeah, not happening, because he is doing all of the above (and so requiring both my hands to keep him out of trouble) as well as talking to strangers and drawing attention.
And let’s not mention that he is new to potty training and will not tell me when he needs to go so I have to guess and make sure we delay things by 10 minutes every now and again to go potty. We can’t take a carry along potty anymore without the pram, as I am already weighed down with bags of shopping, snacks, spare clothes and baby bump.
Am I trying to do too much here? Or does it get easier? I know I could get a double buggy (for him) or sling (for baby) but he is a big boy and is beginning to look too big for his stroller so I really would like to have him walk nicely with me - I see so many other toddlers managing it, why not mine?
Oh, and in case it matters, it takes us half an hour to walk with him to nursery and he is perfectly capable but in a mood he is prone to sitting down, sometimes in puddles. My back hurts too much to start a habit of carrying him so I tend to give up and take the stroller. Today we went out to the shops for 45 minutes and managed ok, but with a lot of stress on my part despite his good mood due to some of the above situations.
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How on earth do other parents get things done in the shops?
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Pansy0926 · 13/02/2018 19:19
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