Please help

[n111chx]

Desperately seeking advice,
New to mumsnet,
In the end of 2016 I came out of a controlling relationship with a narcassist after realizing he had been cheating on me with someone 10 years younger- we had a child together who was 2 at the time. Since our relationship ended him and the new gf became official 7 weeks after, and I feel like he has pushed his relationship onto our child.
I have recently discovered that when its his time to have our child (visits/times agreed via court order) he has been leaving our child with his new partner and going out.
I haven't given him permission to do this or leave our child in the new girlfriends care.
I am extremely worried as the new gf is known to social services for alcohol and drug abuse, and also she has no parental responsibility for my child.
Does anyone have any advice on where I go from here? It kills me knowing my child could be left with this woman whilst her father goes out.
What rights do i have if there is a court order in place?
If anyone can help,
Kind regards
Distraught single mum :'(

p.s. massive apology if I've posted this to the wrong group, new to this and very upset x

[user1493413286]

It sounds like you need to go back to court and if you’re worried for your child’s safety you should stop the contact. Even with a court order you can do this based on safety but you would have to return to court.
Unfortunately he doesn’t need your permission and it doesn’t matter that she doesn’t have parental responsibility but the alcohol and drug abuse are complete justification for not wanting her caring for your child.

[EveryoneTalkAboutPopMusic]

If I were me I’d ask for the access to be altered so that he has supervised access only but I’m not legally trained, it’s hjust what I would ask for. Do you have proof that she’s know to SS and has drug and alcohol issues?

If you do put in an application to the Court Rights of Women might be useful